Harriett

1920-1935
 Harriett's Trip to Her Grandparents Farm at Christmas

Harriett Carlson Terwilliger 

Born in 1920

Dekalb, Illinois

Lived in southern Dekalb County near Waterman and Shabbona as a child.

Her paternal grandparents were from Sweden and settled just outside of DeKalb on a 160 acre farm.


From the time I was a baby until I was fifteen we went to my Grandma and Grandpa Carl son's farm for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. After my Grandma died, we didn't go anymore. We went every Sunday to their house for dinner. One Saturday in the spring of 1935, she had prepared all of the food, baked the cakes and had the table set. She had to crawl under the house to catch a chicken that was trying to escape her. She was 74 years old at that time. We got a call in the morning that she had died in her sleep.

Anyway ... We lived on a farm ... my brother, Howard, Mom and Dad and I. When Christmas came we always had snow. In the late afternoon of Christmas Eve we would drive to DeKalb. Sometimes the roads were really full of snow and on occasion we would have to go with the horses and a bobsled. It was probably 10 to fifteen miles.

We would do our Christmas shopping that afternoon. Grandpa had usually sold some oats for Christmas money. We would go to my Aunt Till's house. Grandmas would wrap the presents in the kitchen. Uncle guy was a candy maker. the house would smell so good. He had two glass counters full of chocolates in paper cups, red and green and chocolate cover taffy cut in bars, peanut brittle. He would sell it from the porch. My brother and I got to choose our favorites.

Then we would go to Grandma and Grandpa Carolsons, all the aunts and uncle and cousins were there. A big angel food cake was on the dining room table with a linen table cloth. The tree was in the living room, which was separated from the dining room by double doors. Everybody went in and sat down in the living room. There was a piano and Aunt Hattie would play carols. On the tree were little candles. You had to be careful or you would burn the house down, so they weren't lit very long.

We could hear the Swedish sleigh bells and stamping on the back door and a voice ... ho ho ho! And in would come Santa ... it was really my Uncle Ralph Wendlund. We would all sit on the floor around the tree and he would call out our names and give us presents out of his big sack. It was pretty exciting. I can still hear those bells.

The adults would have their exchange, all of the kids would have lots of packages. Then we would have a bidg dinner ... ludfiske, limpe bread, Swedish sausage, goose, mashed potatoes. It was always a big fancy dinner. We would go home late at night and would fall asleep in the car. When we would get up in the morning and Mom and Dad would have presents for us. We would drive back to the farm and grandma would have a big dinner .. chicken, duck, lingenberries. One aunt lived in Chicago, one lived in Aurora, so by mid-afternoon everyone had to go back home. They had two uncles with them, so Grandma and Grandpa weren't left alone.

DeKalb was a small town then. The streets were full of people, the Salvation Army was playing on the streets, the town was decorated and everyone knew each other and were so friendly and happy, just like in the movies!

 

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Lyrics to "Over the River"

Over the river and thru the wood,
To grandfather's house we go;
The horse knows the way
To carry the sleigh,
Thru the white and drifted snow, oh!
Over the river and thru the wood,
Oh, how the wind does blow!
It stings the toes,
And bites the nose,
As over the ground we go.

Sheet music to One Horse Open Sleigh" by J. Pierpont from American Memory, Library of Congress

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